I’ve been happily married for 27 years. I love her dearly and I will never cheat on her.

Does that mean I don’t dream of someone else? Of course not. But dreams are dreams, and yes, I dream and fantasize of other lovers.

But the key is, regardless of how horny I may be for others, I love her, and I will never cheat on her or betray her. Some things are far more important than sexual fulfillment. She is my wife, my lover my very bestest friend, and my long-ago wish come true (seriously)..and I will always be true to her. What she is to me is infinitely more than whatever my personal fantasies may be.

Retired Navy. Inveterate contrarian. If I haven’t done it, I’ve usually done something close.